Benfleet Hypnotherapy Reviews
Genuine feedback from satisfied clients
One of the greatest feelings I get as a therapist is seeing happy, confident and contented
clients bounce out of my office at the end of their time with me. Some of those satisfied
customers have been kind enough to leave me feedback on public websites (others prefer not
to of course as therapy can be a very personal and intimate experience). Below are some examples
with links to the original websites.
(Darrell, Jan 2016, Hypnosis for Negative Thinking and Anxiety )
I suffer from general anxiety and was apprehensive at first as you see hypnosis
on TV and think of people making fools of themselves. However this is nothing like that,
for me I didn't feel out of body or mind I just felt very chilled out something that
I was struggling to do at the time because of anxious thoughts. With the help of
Victoria I felt able to access thoughts and parts of my mind such as my sub conscious
and deal with anything anxious or negative in a logical way. It was fun at times
getting rid of negative feelings I didn't even realise I had from life events.
This helped to discover why I'm an anxious person and although I'm not cured the
techniques I've gained help me deal with the symptoms.
(Ann, Sept 2015, Therapy for Weight Loss and Over-eating)
I saw Victoria for issues concerning weight and was put at ease on the first time of meeting
her. She helped me deal with the reasons I over ate and am very pleased with the progress I
have made in my life. Many thanks
(David, Sept 2015, Hypnoherapy for Depression, Stress and Losing Weight)
Had anyone suggested a few years ago that I’d benefit from hypnotherapy, I would have laughed.
But after several years of stress and turmoil at work I’d become moody, depressed and
overweight, and my “get up and go” had, well, gone! Then someone suggested visiting
Pathways, and I’ve never looked back – Victoria has been instrumental and invaluable
in helping me get my life back in order. On arrival I was welcomed into an airy and
well-lit room that felt both serene and relaxing. Victoria spent a few minutes explaining
how she operates, then, having got the formalities out of the way, the consultation began.
Victoria has a compassionate and therapeutic approach which makes her very easy to talk to –
and, more importantly, trust (very important when extracting those skeletons one’s kept locked
in a cupboard for years); she has a way of making one feel completely at ease even when talking
about difficult subjects. She’s also very perceptive, listening carefully and delicately asking
probing questions that do’t seem intrusive yet still get to the roots of matters – and, the
process certainly helped me to recognise, understand and accept them. Once the underlying
issues were clearer (some of which went back much further than I would ever have assumed),
she moved on to the next stage. As can be seen from her website, Victoria is qualified in
a number of techniques and is adept at selecting the one most appropriate to each case.
Hypnosis was nothing like I expected. Was it a totally pleasant experience? No – but digging
into a past I’d kept hidden for years was never going to be easy: there were tears, but laughter,
too. Was it worthwhile? Definitely! The therapy was undoubtedly successful, while the generous
support Victoria offered afterwards helped me to develop the strategies I needed to move forward:
friends and family have noticed a significant change for the better and several months later t
he results are still with me – I can’t thank her enough! Victoria is the consummate professional
therapist. Having been to see her now on several occasions for a variety of issues, I have no h
esitation in recommending her – she’s undoubtedly the best I’ve visited.
(C, Jan 2015, Hypnotherapy for Anxiety Problems
I recently approached Victoria about my anxiety to find out if she could help. Victoria
got back to me quickly which I was very please about and arranged a free consultation.
We had a chat around how I'm feeling and what she could do to help. I am very pleased
with the result and am doing things I wouldn't normally. Would highly recommend Victoria
to anyone looking in to hypnotherapy. She is very down to earth, open and a welcoming person.
(Viv, Jan 2015, herapy for Stress and Confidence Problems)
I went to see Victoria regarding stress and confidence issues. I am so glad I did,
she is helpful, professional and has given me the tools to change my thinking. I
highly recommend seeing Victoria. Thank you Victoria
(Stephanie, 2015, Help with Anxiety and Self-Esteem - Bullying by Other School Mums)
I would highly recommend Victoria. I went to see her as I was suffering from anxiety in general
but especially at the school after a bad experience with other school mums. As a result of the
bullying, I was bursting into tears every time someone was kind to me or said something nice as
my self-esteem had hit rock bottom. Victoria was able to rebuild my self-esteem and release all
the negativity involving the school experiences enabling me to now face the bullies without feeling
powerless. I no longer have anxiety attacks, flush up red in the face or get palpitations when
near these people at the school. I haven't forgotten what they did but it doesn't affect me anymore.
Going through treatment for this raised other unresolved issues that were contributing to my
self-esteem issues and only upon the resolution of these did I realise how much they affected
me in day to day life. I can now accept myself and my past decisions and feel at peace within
myself. I can now look to the future with positivity and feel that things are a lot less complicated
so I can enjoy life. Thank you Victoria. Regards, Stephanie
(Anon, 2015, Hypnotherapy for Rape - Trauma Affecting Relationship Intimacy)
I went to see Victoria because I had been the victim of trauma and rape. I wasn't
sure if this kind of therapy could help me forget about what had happened - it turns
out it couldn't help me forget, but it could help me get through the pain and discomfort
that went with the memories. I was finding it difficult to be intimate in new relationships
which caused me distress and made me feel vulnerable. When my partner would try to talk about
sex or get angry at me through frustration (as they didn't know why), i'd push them away
making it virtually impossible to be in a long term loving relationship. I also found myself
being overly cautious in situations like going out, walking alone, being home alone and meeting
new people- as I would always think the worst would happen again. Now if I find myself thinking
about it, or seeing it on TV, it doesn't affect me in the same way it did and I can accept it
as a part of my history instead of a part of my present. Victoria treated me with respect in a
non-judgmental way and didn't push me for gory details. She enabled me to tell my story without
pressure or making me feel dirty or to blame something I think most people fear that have been
raped so they never tell anybody. After completing therapy with Victoria I am now in a loving
relationship and I feel more settled in myself looking forward to each new day with my partner.
I am no longer held back by the memories that haunted me every day and I feel like I can see
good in the world again. Hypnosis helped change my life - you don't need to let bad experiences
hold you back something can be done about it.
To those who are still suffering and sceptical you have my word this works!
(Clair, 2014, Phobia Therapy for a Fear of Lifts or Claustrophobia)
I have just finished my time with Victoria, and must say I feel like a completely different person ,
no actually that is incorrect, I feel how I used to be before I had anxieties. I had not
been in a lift for 23 years and this was starting to take over my life. But since having
hypnotherapy with Victoria I now feel I have the tools and positive attitude to live my life
the way it should be lived and the way I deserve it should be lived. Victoria is such a calming
and positive person and I felt so comfortable in her presence from the very first session. I was a
ble to relax fully in her environment and felt no pressure to say or do anything I did not want to
do. And the best thing of all I HAVE BEEN IN A LIFT 3 TIMES since. New adventures here I come!!!
Thank you so much Victoria.
(Anon, 2014, Help and Support for Anxiety)
Victoria has been totally professional at all times. Her way of working is thorough
and confidence building. Recommend her to others needing anxieties etc dealt with.
Extremely easy to talk to and discuss fears.
(Steve, 2014, Help with The Knowledge for Cab Drivers, Hypnotherapy for Anxiety and Panic Attacks)
I was recommended by my wife's friend to see Victoria, has I have always suffered anxiety/panic
attacks in a situations where I was in the company of authority, I have been studying the
knowledge of London and found it difficult to come face to face with the examiners and I felt
it held me back when trying to think clearly and communicate, since having hypnotherapy with
Victoria it has helped me enormously with my confidence and overcoming my anxiety, I feel I
have the tools not only to pass the knowledge but also use these skills for the rest of my life.
(Phil, 2014, Hypnotherapy for Anxiety and Work Related Stress)
I found Pathways hypnotherapy sessions to be very beneficial with dealing with confidence
and anxiety issues combined with work stresses. I was a bit uncertain, perhaps even skeptical,
prior to the first session however Victoria is very professional and soon makes you feel at
ease. The improvement I observed in myself over the course of the sessions was quite remarkable
and I am very grateful to her for giving me the confidence to succeed. I would not hesitate to
recommend her to anyone.
(Clair, 2014, Support with Stress and Anxiety)
I was very low when I first saw Victoria and also nervous about hypnotherapy but I had
nothing to worry about. Victoria's calm and encouraging manner was great. After several
months, I am back to my normal self - coping with everything without feeling panicked or
stressed. This worked very well for me and I suggest you give Victoria a try.
(Catherine, 2014, Hypnotherapy for Stress and Self-Confidence)
I felt that the Pathways Hypnotherapy sessions Victoria provided have been greatly beneficial
to my confidence and how I see myself. Victoria was approachable and understanding, as well as
being very professional in every session we had. I am fully satisfied and would highly recommend
Victoria and the service she provides.
(Anon, 2014, Therapy for Panic Attacks and Study and Exam Stress)
Pathways Hypnotherapy sessions helped me deal with the stress which built up towards
the end of my degree with all the workload preventing me from having a decent nights sleep as
I would stay up all night stressed. Victoria gave me methods of managing the stress, also the
stress was causing me to have panic attacks and I was anxious when being outside (incase another
panic attack occured) she has help me control my anxiety and I am much better now. I would recommend
Victoria to anyone considering to user her as she is very professional and it would be a great help.
[Valerie, 2014, Hypnotherapy for Weight Loss]
Victoria has helped me to change my lifestyle through the sessions I have had with her; originally I went to see her because of my
weight. Over the years I had tried every diet going and they did work for a while until I got fed up with the regime, then
the weight piled back on. After seeing Victoria the weight just kept coming off week by week. I lost a stone and I wasn't even dieting.
Plus I was not so tense, she helped me to release all the negative feeling I had. I feel a lot better in myself.
I have booked to have the virtual gastric band in June so watch this space...
[John, 2014, via Facebook, Hypnotherapy for Confidence and Public Speaking]
I have had treatment from Victoria for confidence and public speaking. Being nervous on my initial visit it took no time for Victoria
to make me feel comfortable and relaxed. I find her voice very calming and her approach very comfortable. I can see she truly enjoys her
work and is dedicated and very proffesional. Within a short time of treatment I began noticing small changes within myself for the better;
things that I had lived with for years and learned to live with - never realising the hinderence it was causing me. Every day I was finding
a new inner strength that keeps building day by day; my confidence is more powerful than ever I have known. I know now I will achieve my goals
in life with my new found confidence. I was sceptical at first but once treatment began I waited for my next session with eagerness. I have
felt an overwhelming sense of inner strength and happiness and it continues day by day. It has been a truly remarkable experience for me and
I have had a great experience in these sessions. I give Victoria a very large pat on the back for all her efforts and cannot thank her enough
for the transformation she has achieved for me. I strongly reccomend Victoria to anyone - do not ponder on your problems and suffer in silence go see Victoria!
Thank you very very much Victoria, All the best for the future
[Nicola, 2014, Hypnosis for Help With Emotional Difficulties]
I was very impressed with the professionalism of Victoria. Emotional difficulties
that I have carried with me for years have I feel at last been resolved. I am truly grateful
and would highly recommend Victoria and the service she provides.
[Rebekka, 2014, Hypnosis for Exam Stress]
I suffered with anxiety for exams. I came to see Victoria when I had to complete
a professional exam that aided my career choice. Victoria helped me to feel completely
comfortable in the exam setting. She helped me to be able to control my anxiety as
and when i needed to. Not only did I pass my exam but I am now able to control my
feelings towards situations I feel uncomfortable with. I am extremely grateful, and definitely recommend Pathways.
[Chris, 2014, Help with Public Speaking - Glossophobia]
I used Pathways for an issue I had with glossophobia. Before I began my sessions I
was a bit apprehensive and didn't know what to expect from it all. I arrived for my
first session and Victoria soon put me at ease and made me feel very comfortable. I have
seen a big improvement in myself from the sessions and am very grateful that she has
remedied this phobia I had so I can progress and fulfill a successful career. Would
highly recommend Victoria's work to anyone who is considering, excellent from start to finish.
[John, 2014, by email, Hypnosis for Confidence and Social Phobias]
I would like to say a big thank you for an amazing session on Saturday. I have never felt such a powerful,
overwhelming feeling inside; a feeling of inner strength and unbelievable happiness. It was truly amazing.
I left and drove home with a smile on my face almost all the journey and the feeling of strong happiness is wonderful.
Today again I am happy; I have been to work a place that I really do not like but I had no desperate feeling to rush and
leave at the end of the day. I am finding this treatment so successful for me and I feel stronger day by day.
I knowI am walking taller and more confident and feel very different. Again I thank you very much, I cannot say how much I appreciate
what you have done for me so far. Thank you.
[Sally, 2013, Hypnotherapy for Weight Loss]
I found Pathways Hypnotherapy to be one of the most positive things that
has happened to me in the last few years. Victoria offers the solution to
losing weight - I have tried everything believe me and for once in my life I
can honestly say that I will never diet again. I wont need to! I have lost
three stones in 6 months and am continuing to lose. For anyone wanting to
lose weight - this is it! I was sceptical at first, as I imagine that you
will be reading this - however it works. Not only for me, but for the four
others that I have also referred to Victoria. Victoria offers a professional
service yet still maintains a friendly approach which means you completely
relax and feel in safe hands.
[JKN1, 2013, Hypnotherapy for a Phobia of Vomit and Sickness]
I found my time with Victoria extremely valuable. I feel more confident, more relaxed
and have control over the emetophobia (fear of vomit or being sick) I have
suffered many years with. I would definitely recommend Victoria and
hypnotherapy.
[Cara, 2013, Therapy for Weight Loss and Social Anxiety Disorder]
I came to see Victoria through recommendation of one of my mums friends, I had
struggled with my weight from a very early age and no matter how hard I tried at
diets they just never seemed to work and I always ended up breaking and going right
back up to the weight I started at. I came and had the gastric band fitted under
hypnosis and then continued to see Victoria to deal with my Social Anxiety Disorder.
It was the best thing I ever did! I have lost over 2 stone in 12 weeks, and I have
so much more confidence in myself and social situations that I went out and got
a job!! Victoria is lovely she makes you feel so comfortable and is understanding in
everything you tell her. She has helped me so so much I would recommend her to anyone,
and I am so grateful for the support she has given me throughout seeing her, as well
as once my sessions came to an end I still check in with her weekly to inform her on my progress.
Thanks Victoria, your amazing!! :)
[Marie, 2013 Hypnosis for a Phobia of Snakes]
After suffering from a immense phobia of snakes for as long as I can
remember, the time came when I had to try something as it was getting worse.
Unable to watch certain TV programmes, go in book shops (In case there was a
picture) go to newsagents that sell jelly snakes, or even look at certain
coloured clothes because of the resemblance, my life was suffering, plus I
really wanted to go to the zoo, but that was never going to happen. I
visited Pathways after being pressured by a friend, I didn't believe
something like this could help, but I went, open minded, and was amazed at
how relaxed and at home I felt within my first few moments there, Victoria
was totally understanding and her confidence in helping me made me feel
positive there was a way out. Literally 3 sessions later, I'm watching Harry
potter (including the snake bits) looking and touching pictures, purchasing
jelly snakes (although not quite eating them yet) :-). My life has been
transformed and there's no burden of a fear on my shoulders 24/7. I'm even
planning a trip to the zoo, and I will go in the reptile house. Totally
recommended, Pathways can really help you remove that phobia and stop it
controlling your life.
[W, 2012, Stop Smoking Hypnosis]
Hello! This service is really something special. I had a few sessions
with Victoria to help me quit smoking after 7 years ... and it helped me a
lot to overcome the craving involved in the process. It's extremely relaxing
sitting in these chairs and receiving affirmative, nice and warm messages
within your subconscious. Definitely a recommendable alternative therapy!
[Lee, 2012, Hypnosis for Anxiety and Panic Attacks]
I was suffering with anxiety, panic attacks and confidence issues so I
decided to get help and found Victoria on the internet. I did not know what
to expect but I found Victoria to be very professional and I felt
comfortable from the off set. I found her to be a great listener, she gave
great advice and I found my sessions in regards to Hypnotherapy and EFT to
be very effective. I have come away with some very useful life skills and I
am now feeling very confident and focused and the anxiety now is a thing of
the past. I would recommend Pathways Hypnotherapy to anyone!
[Dean, 2011, Stop Smoking Hypnotherapy]
I visited Pathways being very sceptical of the hypnotising process, but
after being explained how it all works felt immediately at ease. Having been
a smoker for over 25 years I wasn't expecting great results but I can tell
you now after the session I haven't had a single cigarette! And that was 10
months ago!! As a non smoker I feel much more confident and healthy in my
lifestyle. Money well spent considering how much you pay for a packet of 20
these days! I would highly recommend Victoria from Pathways Hypnotherapy.
So if you think hypnotherapy in Benfleet might be able to help you deal with a phobia, anxiety or
weight problem, just give me a call NOW! Take back control of your life!
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